At the desk
- Rick Elmore
- Victoria Olsina
- Jason Hennessey
- Faizan Khan
- Will Mitchell
- Kerry Anderson
- RHILLANE Ayoub
- Sahil Kakkar
- Paul Towers
- Cody Owens
- Joseph Riviello
- Marty Hitzeman
- Mark Bietz
- Lisa Bennett
- Victor Smushkevich
- Brian Hansen
- Fahad Khan
- Dawood Bukhari
- Mr Charles Liu
- Melody Brooks
- James Colistra
- Mariia Grachova
- Scott Brazdo MBA
- Luke Wherry
- Julian Awad
Let Behavior Set Your Market Frame
Rick ElmoreCEO, Simply NotedRick Elmore, CEO, Simply Noted. When feedback conflicts, I weight it by behavior, not opinion. What customers do (reorders, referrals, how fast they come back) beats what they say in surveys. If feedback splits, I segment it by customer type first, because often both sides are right about different buyers.
One insight that changed our positioning: we described Simply Noted as a handwritten notes service, but customers who reordered kept talking about the response rates. They were not buying notes, they were buying attention. Our real-world results showed open rates near 99% on handwritten envelopes. We reframed around getting your message opened and remembered, and conversations with sales and marketing teams got much easier. Listen for the words customers use when they describe the result, then borrow them.
Follow Search Queries, Not Brand Preferences
Victoria OlsinaWeb3 SEO + AI Content Systems, VictoriaOlsina.comPositioning insights should come from behaviour, not opinion. When feedback conflicts, I give more weight to what people actually search for and click on than to what they say in an interview or a review. On a crypto compliance client's account, several stakeholders kept pushing us toward warm, brand-led language like "trusted infrastructure partner". Search data told a different story: prospects were typing highly specific terms tied to compliance workflows and transaction types, not brand adjectives. We rebuilt the core positioning and page copy around those exact terms instead of the language the brand preferred, and non-branded organic traffic grew 43x while organic search became over half of all leads. The lesson stuck: before trusting a loud opinion in a meeting, check what people are actually typing into a search bar.
Map Language to Decision Stages
Conflicting feedback often signals a category problem. Existing customers may describe the business through yesterday's comparison set, while prospective customers evaluate it against the risk of doing nothing. Map feedback to the decision stage where it appeared. Early-stage language should earn attention, mid-stage language should reduce perceived risk, and customer language should reinforce proof. One phrase cannot responsibly perform all three jobs.
I learned this when clients celebrated technical rankings, yet their referrals emphasized being able to grow without guessing. Rankings were evidence, not the promise. The positioning moved toward disciplined growth, with search performance framed as a mechanism rather than the headline. That change improved message consistency.
Mine Unprompted Words for Category Fit
Faizan KhanPR and Content Marketing Specialist, Ubuy IndonesiaEight years running marketing for a physical-product brand. The feedback that changes positioning is almost never the feedback about positioning. People will tell you what they think of your tagline, and it's worthless, because nobody can report accurately on what made them buy. What's useful is the language they use when they aren't being asked. So I read support tickets and reviews rather than surveys, and I look for the words that keep appearing that aren't ours. What changed was that customers kept describing us as the place you go when you've already tried the cheap one. We'd been positioning on quality, which is what everyone says. They were positioning us on sequence, which is where we actually sat in their lives. We changed the copy to match. It felt like a downgrade when I wrote it.
Let Transactions Reveal Your Core Promise
Will MitchellFounder, StartupBrosI sort conflicting customer feedback by purchase behavior, not by volume of complaints or praise. When 200 people say they want Feature A but the 30 who bought in the last quarter all mention Feature B, my marketing positioning follows the money. Transactions tell you what someone valued enough to pay for.
One time I was consulting on product positioning and the team had survey data showing customers loved the "easy setup" angle. But when we pulled the conversion data and matched it against post-purchase interviews, buyers kept describing the product in terms of reliability and durability. Nobody was buying because setup was easy. They were buying because they trusted it wouldn't break, so we rewrote the entire landing page around that trust angle and conversions climbed within weeks.
The practical constraint is that you need enough transaction-level data to make this call. When I'm working with an early-stage team that has only a handful of customers, I've watched feedback surveys mislead fast because the loudest voices aren't the ones spending. I'd rather talk to 10 paying customers about why they bought than survey 500 prospects about what they wish existed.
Unify Local SEO With Targeted Ads
Kerry AndersonCo-Founder, RankingCoI've spent years bridging sales, tech and executive teams at RankingCo, which gives me a clear view of how conflicting customer feedback often stems from misaligned goals rather than the ideas themselves.
When feedback pulls in different directions, I anchor the decision in how well each insight supports the full business strategy rather than isolated marketing tweaks. This comes from watching execution turn strategies into results across scaled businesses.
One insight came from small business clients who wanted visibility but described their needs in narrow ad terms. Listening closely showed they needed local SEO integrated with targeted ads, so I reframed our offering around unified visibility that matches how search and social actually intersect for them.
Translate Metrics Into Broker Stakes
The insight that changed how we describe our work came from reading our own outreach notes the way a prospect would. We had written to real estate brokers about search demand in their area, with lines like "1,000 a month here". Read cold, the honest reaction was: a thousand what, and then what? A broker is not a marketer. A number with no human meaning attached is noise, and a gap that stops without saying what it costs them gives no reason to reply.
So the rule we now apply to every message a client or prospect reads is to name the actual reader first and write in their vocabulary. Rankings, keywords and search volume disappear. What stays is what they feel: buyers who looked for exactly what they sell this month and called a competitor instead.
When feedback points in different directions, I give the most weight to confusion that repeats. A client disliking a word is taste. People asking what a number means, more than once, tells you the message was written for the people who made it rather than for the people reading it.
Frame Clarity for Scrutiny
Sahil KakkarCEO / Founder, RankWatchA customer once explained the value in a phrase that stayed with me. They said, "I can now defend this decision in a meeting." That was more useful than any feature request because it revealed the real pressure behind their need. They were not simply seeking information. They needed confidence that could withstand scrutiny.
That insight changed how we described our work. We moved away from language about access and visibility, which was accurate but emotionally flat. Instead, we focused on clarity that helps people make decisions they can stand behind. The change mattered because it reflected the customer's lived reality rather than our internal vocabulary. When customers give you language that captures a high-stakes moment, it is often wiser to listen than to invent a more polished phrase.
Test Sales Lines Against Customer Jobs
Paul TowersFounder & CEO, Playwise HQWhen customer feedback points in different directions, I treat it as a research problem, not a vote. Conflicting requests often share one job to be done. My job is to find that job, then write positioning a salesperson can say out loud.
At Playwise HQ I handle marketing myself. Feedback regularly splits: some users want deeper competitive detail, others want a one-screen battlecard they can use on a live call. Both are real. Neither should automatically rewrite the homepage.
How I decide: 1. Separate the speaker and the stage. A rep mid-deal, an enablement lead, and a buyer after implementation are answering different questions. 2. Weight outcomes over volume. A quiet pattern from closed-won deals beats a loud wishlist from deals that were never competitive. 3. Ask what job the buyer is hiring the product to do. Feature conflict often collapses into one positioning sentence. 4. Test the line in a sales conversation before you put it on a landing page. If it only works in a deck, it is not positioning yet.
One insight that changed how I describe Playwise HQ: reps were not asking for more competitor research. They were asking for confidence in the moment a competitor came up. That shifted the offer from "competitive intelligence library" to "deal-ready battlecards and field intel you can use live." Same product, clearer job, less noise in the message.
Score Input Against Strategic Goals
Cody OwensContent Director, Elevate My BrandBrands need to document all customer feedback so it can be referenced and quantified. In that central source of truth for historical feedback, you can rate each recommendation by importance, difficulty of implementation, and your degree of agreement. If you want to be really intentional, you can create a simple formula that ranks each recommendation based on its collective score. Let math do the prioritization for you.
We all want to take corrective action immediately, but knowing where there's consensus about needs is critical to knowing where to invest your time and money.
I also recommend connecting each piece of feedback back to your business goals. If there's a semi-common suggestion that's irrelevant to your goals, that's important data, too. It doesn't necessarily mean you need to ignore the suggestion; it may instead mean you need to realign your goals to better meet your audience's needs. Then, communicating that realignment to your audience shows you're listening and taking their feedback seriously.
Use Campaign Data to Protect Awareness
Joseph RivielloCEO & Founder, Zen AgencyWith over 22 years leading digital marketing at Zen Agency, I have guided countless scaling businesses through conflicting feedback by anchoring decisions to measurable campaign data rather than opinions.
We run every insight through our optimization process, letting transparent metrics on traffic, leads, and conversions reveal which direction actually drives ROI instead of noise.
One clear case came from clients fixated only on bottom-of-funnel spend. Their feedback split between chasing instant sales and needing broader visibility, yet the numbers showed last-click attribution was starving awareness and consideration stages.
We shifted our positioning to emphasize the full-funnel 40/30/30 budget split, describing our work as an integrated growth system rather than isolated tactics, which aligned teams and improved long-term results.
Sell External Cybersecurity Team Capacity
Marty HitzemanDirector of Marketing, EMPIST"I find myself prioritizing the way customers act, as opposed to how loudly they speak. I compare customer complaints to conversion rates and then to prospects' question-asking. I also make sure that I understand the difference between product issues (what my customers don't like about the product) and messaging issues (what my customers are confused by).
Business leaders were more concerned with finding the right people to manage their organization's cybersecurity than adding more tools. Therefore, instead of presenting my product as a list of technical features, I began to position it as a resource for providing an external team that would be able to perform those security-related duties which could not be accomplished by the company's internal staff; this made the value of my product clear to business leaders."
Simplify Choices to Build Confidence
Mark BietzCMO, Halloween CostumesOne customer insight that changed our language was realizing that people did not always want more choices. They wanted help making sense of the choices available to them. A message focused only on breadth could make the decision feel larger rather than easier. The feedback showed that clarity could be more persuasive than scale.
We began describing the experience around confidence and simplicity instead of treating selection as the main story. That shift also influenced how we organized information because clearer paths can be more useful than adding another reason to browse. The wording changed, but so did how we framed the experience.
Move Donor Support Beyond Physical Events
Lisa BennettDirector, Sales & Marketing, DoJiggyI give the most weight to insights that reflect what clients are actually trying to accomplish. Feedback can point in many directions, but the most useful signals show up in how organizations raise money and where they get stuck.
COVID changed how we described our offering. Before then, we thought we were already doing virtual fundraising because everything happened online. When events were canceled, we realized what we really offered was online registration for physical events. Clients needed something different: ways to raise money without anyone showing up in person, like online auctions. We quickly shifted both the product and how we talked about it to match.
The lesson I took from that is to describe your offering in your clients' terms. A label can feel accurate from the inside and still miss what people need. Watching what clients were really trying to do, rather than relying on our old assumptions, made our positioning much clearer.
Promise Booked Jobs, Not Deliverables
Victor SmushkevichFounder, Tested MediaWhen feedback splits, I sort it by what the buyer is trying to get done, not by who's loudest. Service business owners say a dozen different things, but they almost always want the same outcome: more booked jobs. So I weight feedback that ties to that outcome and park the rest.
The pattern I keep running into is owners describing what they bought in the wrong terms. They say they want a website, or SEO, or ads. Those are the parts. What they care about is whether the phone rings and the calendar fills. Once I saw that, I stopped leading with the deliverables. I describe the offer as a system that books jobs, with the site, the search work, the ads and the follow-up as pieces inside it.
That shift matters more than it sounds, because follow-up is where the gap shows. MIT research found you're 21x more likely to qualify a lead if you respond within five minutes. Owners rarely ask for fast follow-up by name, yet it's the thing that decides whether the traffic turns into work. Nobody requests it in a feedback form, so you only catch it by watching what happens after the lead comes in.
My test for any insight is simple. Does it show up from different people in different words, and does it connect to a booked job? If yes, it goes into the positioning. If it's one person's preference about a button color, it doesn't.
Emphasize Candor Over Empty Reassurance
Brian HansenPresident, Rocket PilotsCustomer feedback should shape positioning when it reveals a durable expectation, not merely a temporary preference. I weigh comments based on recurrence, commercial impact, and whether the issue appears across different customer relationships. This method prevents the loudest voice from defining a message that should serve a broader market.
A powerful insight was that clients wanted fewer surprises, even when the news was not ideal. They valued early clarity over optimistic reassurance that later required revision. Positioning changed to emphasize candor, preparation, and realistic expectations. That message stood apart because it recognized that trust is often built through honesty before results are fully visible.
Start With Results Before Capabilities
Fahad KhanDigital Marketing Manager, Ubuy PeruConflicting feedback typically indicates that different customer segments care about different things; hence, we ceased searching for one unified message and began mapping feedback to the customer's journey stage, not the feedback itself.
The key learning that led to changing positioning strategy: new customers consistently characterized our product as "it has X and Y," whereas existing customers talked about benefits or simply described our product in terms of outcomes such as "it saved us time" or "it just works." The company homepage was entirely formulated in feature language, which resonated only with half of our audience.
We changed the homepage copy to start with outcome statements and to position features further down the page to align it with how existing customers (our strongest referrers) talked about the product. Within two months, demo requests increased by 27%, while referrer-generated leads grew by 19% due to better alignment between our messaging and customer language.
The main takeaway is that customers talk about your product in different ways depending on their familiarity with it. Therefore, positioning should be aligned with your target audience.
Protect Partner Relationships Through Discretion
Feedback gathered at different moments should not be treated as equivalent. Early conversations reveal expectations, but renewal conversations reveal which promises survived operating pressure. I track the gap between what attracted an account and what kept it stable after delivery cycles. That gap is more useful than satisfaction scores because it shows where positioning creates obligations the operation cannot consistently support.
One insight was that partners were protecting their client relationships above all other considerations. Capacity mattered, but not if expansion increased visibility into the delivery process. The language changed from growth support to relationship protection, emphasizing continuity, discretion, and execution that allows partners to retain control of the client experience.
Clarify Bulk Wholesale Customization
Mr Charles LiuMarketing Director, Cubic PromoteI'm Charles Liu, founder and Marketing Director of Cubic Promote, a Sydney-based business employing around 30 people across Australia, the Philippines, Vietnam, and India. One challenge for us is that, as a bulk wholesale supplier, we can sometimes be mistaken for a retail business. Customer feedback does not always correct that perception either. Clients might praise our delivery, product quality or reliable service, which is valuable, but it does not necessarily explain that we specialise in bulk orders and customised promotional products.
Because of that, we regularly adjust our messaging to make our positioning clearer. We deliberately use words such as promotional, customised, bulk and wholesale across our website and marketing so people understand what we actually do before they enquire. The customer insight for us was that positive feedback alone does not always communicate your business model. You still need to make sure your own messaging clearly explains who you serve and what makes your offering different.
Address Prospects’ Real Alternative
Melody BrooksFounder, Stride Agency ApSI pay particular attention to what customers are comparing a product against, because it's not always the competitors a company expects.
We worked with a B2B client that had traction across six European markets but struggled to find a clear positioning angle. During buyer research, we discovered that prospects weren't really comparing the product with its obvious competitors. They were comparing it with a completely different, more cumbersome way of getting the same job done.
That changed how we approached the messaging. Instead of emphasizing features against direct competitors, we focused on the problem buyers were actually trying to solve and narrowed the strategy to one market.
When feedback points in different directions, I'd trust the insight that changes how a customer makes a buying decision, not simply the opinion repeated most often.
Turn Podcast Appearances Into Authority Assets
James ColistraFounder & Principal, WONDERFISHWith nearly 20 years in business media and integrated marketing at Forbes, I resolve conflicting customer feedback by anchoring directly to business outcomes rather than volume requests. I prioritize the insights that address the core bottleneck to building qualified pipeline and authority.
At WONDERFISH, founder feedback was initially split between requests for maximum podcast booking volume and demands for direct lead generation. The underlying insight was that placements alone fell flat because founders lacked the time to turn interviews into ongoing marketing assets.
We shifted how we describe the Podcast Power Circuittm from a podcast booking service to a complete authority engine that provides custom interview prep and repurposes recordings into short videos and LinkedIn posts. Framing our offering around building authority without cold outreach or ads instantly resonated with brand-led founders.
Demonstrate Agency Expertise Before Aesthetics
Mariia GrachovaCo-Founder & CEO, Loona AgencyI'm Mariia Grachova, CEO and Co-Founder of Loona Agency. When feedback points in different directions, I look at who is paying and keep interviewing until answers repeat. Then I test the change on real conversion, not on opinions.
The insight that changed how we describe ourselves came from those interviews. A business paying $5,000+ for marketing doesn't want an agency that makes things pretty. They want proof that we understand their business and can show the money. So we put cases, reviews, certifications and the team's faces first. Lead conversion on our site went from 0.05% to 1-4% with no redesign.
Mariia Grachova, CEO & Co-Founder, Loona Agency (loona.agency)
Expose AI Visibility Anxiety
Scott Brazdo MBAFounder & CEO, Upskale MarketingConflicting customer feedback usually means you're listening to the right people -- you just haven't found the signal yet. After 30 years of marketing and rebranding 300+ companies, I've learned to look for the insight that keeps showing up unprompted, across different customers, in different conversations.
When I was building Upskale, early conversations kept revealing the same frustration: business owners didn't even know they were invisible on AI platforms. They weren't asking "how do I rank on ChatGPT" -- they were saying "I don't even know if AI knows I exist." That reframe changed everything.
We stopped describing what we do as "AI search optimization" in our lead positioning and started leading with "Find out if AI can find you." That one shift -- from explaining our service to surfacing their fear -- came entirely from listening to what customers said before they understood what AEO even was.
The insight that matters most is almost never the one customers articulate clearly. It's the anxiety underneath the question they're actually asking.
Offer Integrated Websites and Full Market Support
Luke WherryMarketing Director, Three Ring FocusI founded Three Ring Focus in 2009 and still oversee SEO, PPC, and social accounts, so I see conflicting feedback constantly. I don't treat all feedback equally; I look for the customer pain that repeats across calls, reviews, search queries, analytics, and contact forms.
If one person says "make it modern" and another says "I need more leads," the second one usually matters more for positioning. Preferences shape design; repeated buying friction shapes the message.
One insight that changed our own positioning was realizing local businesses weren't really asking us for "a website." They were asking for one place to solve visibility, credibility, branding, and lead generation without juggling five vendors.
So we stopped describing Three Ring Focus as just a web design shop and leaned into "marketable, SEO-friendly websites with integrated branding and marketing." That better matched the actual problem: businesses needed a site that answered who they are, what they solve, why they're credible, and what the customer should do next.
Promote Proactive Tree Care Reminders
Julian AwadFounder, Local Tree Service MarketingAs founder of Local Tree Service Marketing with 18 years focused on tree service clients, I sort conflicting feedback by testing which insights match actual tree care pain points like timing and consistency rather than broad opinions.
Client satisfaction surveys repeatedly showed homeowners forgot seasonal needs such as pruning or pest control, so we shifted positioning from reactive services to proactive care through automated reminders.
This change came directly from survey comments about trees suffering between visits, leading us to feature reminder systems in our lead generation campaigns and website messaging.
The result is clearer differentiation that turns one-time callers into repeat clients by addressing what matters most to them.


