Valentine’s Personalization That Lifts AOV
Valentine's Day presents a prime opportunity to boost average order value through strategic personalization tactics. This article explores two proven approaches: targeting high-value customers with SMS campaigns and leveraging authentic scarcity to drive preorder sales. Industry experts share practical methods that retailers can implement to maximize revenue during this critical shopping period.
Text RFM Duos to Top Customers
I use a tactic called RFM-driven SMS bundles. This means I look at "Champions", which means customers who buy from us often and spend the most. Then I send them a text suggesting a "perfect pair" of products based on what they've bought before. I sent the message at 8:00 PM, when people are most likely to check their phones. I made it look personal. For example: "Susy, pair your fave serum with rose oil for her glow - 20% off duo, ends midnight!" I also included a one-click link so they could buy the bundle instantly without searching.
The result was that our Average Order Value (AOV) jumped 32%, and we noticed a 48% open rate.

Drive Preorders with Real Scarcity
Valentine's Day for our flower business is the most critical day of the year. We sell in this one day as much as we do in three regular months combined. So our strategy is built around urgency and early planning.
We use a two-step email campaign. Two weeks before the holiday, we send an email announcing our special premium Valentine's collection. These bouquets cost 50-60% more than our base prices because we use rare flowers and provide extended logistics. In the email, we immediately emphasize that the number of orders is limited.
One week before the holiday, we send a follow-up email with the main message: literally ten spots left. And this isn't a marketing trick. Every year we actually sell out completely two to three days before Valentine's and are forced to close orders on February 13-14. Our clients know this and plan their purchases ahead.
The result? Average order value during these days grows 50-58% compared to the regular period of the year. Plus we added personalization through Polaroid. Clients can attach a personal photo to their bouquet for an additional $10. This helps convey emotions and increases the perceived value of the gift.
Why does this work? Real urgency, not fake. Premium positioning is justified by quality. And emotional personalization that turns regular flowers into a special gift.

Suggest Complements from Prior Presents
Past gifting patterns make it easy to suggest coordinated pairs that feel thoughtful, not random. If a shopper gave jewelry before, the system can recommend a matching case, cleaner, or a new charm that fits the same line. When last year’s gift was flowers, a framed photo or cozy throw can complete this year’s story.
Clear “pairs well with what you gave before” labels help the idea click fast. Loyalty points or a small bundle discount can seal the decision. Activate history-based pairing suggestions ahead of Valentine’s week today.
Use Browse Clues to Curate Sets
Browsing history can power curated Valentine bundles that feel made for the moment. Recent views reveal style, color, and price cues that guide a smart set. Combine items that share a theme, and show a bundle price that beats buying pieces alone.
A small “swap item” control keeps the shopper in charge and lowers friction. Gentle privacy notes reassure users that data only improves picks. Turn recent browsing into ready-to-buy Valentine sets today.
Engrave Names for Instant Keepsakes
Using the recipient’s name, suggest engraved extras that turn a simple gift into a keepsake. A live preview with the name or monogram removes doubt and speeds the choice. Pre-fill character limits and font options so the step is quick and clear.
Offer a matching engraved box or charm to lift value without feeling pushy. Precise shipping dates calm worries about timing. Add name-based engraving prompts at product and cart level today.
Match Gifts by Relationship Stage
A short relationship stage quiz can guide shoppers to the right tone for their gift, from early spark to long-term partner. The quiz asks a few simple questions and then reveals bundles that fit the stage and budget. Each bundle pairs a hero item with a thoughtful add-on and a small keepsake to raise perceived value.
Clear savings messaging helps show why the bundle beats buying items alone. One click add-to-cart keeps the flow fast and reduces drop off. Add a relationship quiz that auto-builds complementary bundles today.
Map Love Languages to Smart Add-Ons
Upsells tailored to love languages and interests feel helpful and drive bigger carts. When a shopper picks a gift, show an add-on that matches how their partner best feels loved. Words of affirmation can surface a custom note insert, while quality time can trigger an experience voucher.
Interests like music, pets, or cooking can shape the exact upgrade shown. Short, friendly copy like “complete the moment” makes the nudge clear without pressure. Map love language and interests to upsells and test the placement today.
